Uber-Dom

In my own experience, Dom(me)s that can inspire an immediate desire in me to submit are very rare, but such scarcity is counteracted with the absolute gall of the ones that I unfortunately am contacted by. My latest offering of one such Uber-Dom came in the shape of a random FetLife email I received. Here's how that went......

Him: "Your master is lucky... wish i can operate you online...."

Me: "operate" me? I don't know what this means............"

Him: "well its "Owned and operated". When a Dom owns a Sub he operates it. Its to reduce a Sub to 
something less then a human being or consider him or her as a machine or utility to be operated.

It needs to be said that this reply genuinely upset and frightened me that this man *could* be serious.... Now don't get me wrong, I am VERY aware of the role I chose in the BDSM lifestyle, but for anybody to assume that I am here for general servitude or to be so broken down as to lose all sense of self and becomes this "machine" is MASSIVELY insulting to me never mind hurtful. 

I was stunned after reading that. I honestly didn't know whether to take him seriously or not and so I told my own Master of what was happening and how I felt. I still hadn't replied to the email though. I just didn't know how to.......yet. The next morning however after an early wake-up call I was greeted with:

Him: "so what do u think of the Idea of being operated by a stranger dom?"

(Note: I hadn't yet had a cup of tea, I hadn't been given chance to regain full consciousness but I HAD lost all my patience with him and his type...!!!)

Me: "Firstly, if you had taken a few seconds to read my profile you'd know I am already owned by another. Making 
your desire to "operate" me a moot point.

Secondly, I find your idea of 'reducing' a bottom/sub till they are nothing but a machine for your use, LAUGHABLE 
at best. Your need for removing consent by damaging someone till they no longer think for themselves is a genuine 
concern. Maybe through consent you haven't been able to find a play partner and this is a solution? Maybe...

You will never "operate" me. Nor will you ever have such a chance with any bottom/sub in my network.

I wish you luck in your future endeavours ..... as far away from me as possible.

Never yours, rainy."

Hmmmm I haven't gotten a reply to that one (yet?!). Though I have been advised that such a personality may retaliate with abuse and / or  bragging about other bottoms/subs that are only too happy to fall in line. (Scary thought huh...) Part of me got a little fired up by standing up to him, that's the part that is waiting on a reply so I can have another rant LOL

Interesting Note: ALL my Uber-Dom contacts have started with "your Master is lucky / a lucky man..." etc, and while that is a nice compliment to us both, its hardly directed at me is it?? A direct compliment would have gone a lot further.............

So.... I guess this blog is just my way of giving a heads-up to everyone (especially to bottoms / subs) - without us, there would be no Doms. Never let a anyone talk to you or treat you with disrespect or distane on first contact!!! Agreed play-partners however (with bounderies / rules) now that's different..... 

So come on - lets out all these fools so no 'innocent' gets pulled into a scary situation with them.